Pride in Parenting: Training Curriculum for Lay Home Visitors
Linda T. Diamond, M.S. and Marion H. Jarrett, Ed.D., editors.

Unit 6
Working with Families

The purpose of this unit is to provide the Parenting Support Specialist (PSS) with an understanding of the family and healthy family functioning and behaviors. This knowledge will assist the PSS in helping families to maintain and develop healthy family functioning and behaviors. By enhancing family functioning, parental competence and parent-infant interaction will also be enhanced.

Objectives

By the end of this unit, participants will be able to:

  • Describe the concept of family.
  • Describe the functions of the family.
  • Describe the family life cycle.
  • Describe how ethnicity influences family beliefs and behaviors.
  • Identify healthy family behaviors.
  • Demonstrate ways of helping families to maintain and develop healthy family functioning and behavior.
Time

6 hours

Outline

A. Overview/Definitions and Trends of Families
B. Family Functions
C. Family Life Cycle
D. Healthy Family Behaviors
E. Ways to Promote Healthy Family Functioning and Behaviors
F. Family Case Studies and Practice Sessions
G. Summary and Review

Materials
  • Berkey,K. & Hanson, S. (1991). Pocket Guide to Family Assessment and Intervention. Baltimore: Mosby.
  • Bromwich, R. (1978). Working with Parents and Infants. An interactional approach. Texas: Pro-Ed.
  • Friedman (1986). Family Nursing Theory and Assessment. Connecticut: Appleton-Century Crofts.
  • Gillis, C., Highley, B., Roberts, B., & Martinson, I. (1989). Toward a Science of Family Nursing. New York: Addison-Wesley.
  • Family Case Study #1 (Training Aid #1)
  • Family Case Study #2 (Training Aid #2)
  • Family Case Study #3 (Training Aid #3)
  • Family Life Cycle (Handout #1)
  • 15 Strengths or Traits Found in Healthy Families (Handout #2)
  • Top Stressors for Families (Handout #3)
  • Role Play Feedback (Overhead #1)
  • Post-Unit Evaluation
  • Post-Unit Test
  • Easel with Chart Paper; markers or blackboard and chalk
  • Video Equipment: video camera, tripod, tape, VCR, and television
Advance Preparation
  • Review above listed references.
  • Review handout materials; make transparencies as needed.
  • Try out video equipment. Set up camera to videotape role play
 
A. OVERVIEW/DEFINITIONS AND TRENDS OF FAMILIES (45 Minutes)
Rationale: The purpose of this training session is to help the Parenting Support Specialists (PSS) to understand the importance of the family unit for the mother-infant and/or parent-infant interaction. This unit will also focus on developing an understanding of how the family influences the health and behavior of the mother and her infant. The PSS will also learn how to assist the mother to maintain and develop healthy family functioning and behaviors.
Procedure: Discussion. Begin by having participants address the following questions:
  • What does the term "family" mean to each of the participants?
  • How do they think that families have changed?
  • What do they think are the strengths of the families they will be visiting?
  • What do they think will be the needs of the families they will be visiting?
  • Combine lecture and discussion to include the following information:
  • 1. Current Family Trends
    • Increase in single-parent families.
    • Increase of working mothers with young children.
    • Women have fewer children.
    • Increase of the number of women who remain single and care for children.
    • Increase in the number of children who live in poverty.
    • Increase in the number of families where violence threatens the well-being of the family and its members.
    2. Historical Trends
    • Usually male and female parents were responsible for caring for children.
    • Families were often self-sufficient, they raised their own food, made their own clothes, educated their own children and provided their own recreation.
    • Having many children was seen as valuable because children could work and help support the family.
    • Families stayed close to its members, even when children grew up and left the family.
    • Older members were often close by to help guide and assist new parents.
    3. Family Definitions
    • Many definitions are based on the idealized image of father, mother and 2 children with a host of extended family members close by; father = breadwinner, head of family; mother = homemaker.
    • However, today (1990's) only about 14% of American families are really like this idealized image.
    • Ask participants to give definitions of family. Discussion will probably bring out these ideas:
    1. Persons joined by bonds of marriage, blood or adoption.
    2. Members of family usually live together in a single household.
    3. Family members interact with and communicate with each other in social roles such as father-mother, husband-wife, son-daughter, sister-brother.
    4. Family shares common culture/beliefs/values.
    • Suggest a Broad Definition of Family: A family is composed of people (2+) who are emotionally involved with each other and usually live in close geographical proximity (Friedman).
    • Extended Family: The family of procreation and other blood related persons; "kin" = grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins.
    4. Why is it important to understand families, family function and family behavior?

    The family unit is seen as the basic unit of society and the first social structure in society that most individuals experience. This primary social structure is where family members first learn and practice health promoting and disease preventing behaviors.

  • Families are responsible for certain tasks that affect the health and well-being of each member.

    Encouraging optimal (best possible) health for each family member is an important part of the family's life style.

Family Responsibilities Related to Health:

1. Developing skills in the individual members so they can care for themselves.

2. Provide family members with sufficient social skills, contact and physical materials so they can take care of themselves. For example:

  • knowing when a family member is sick or well;
  • how and when to call the clinic or doctor if a family member is sick;
  • how to get a Medicaid card or other medical card to cover the cost of a visit to the clinic or to medicines; and
  • how to give medicines to a sick infant.

3. Promoting independence and individual personality for each family member.

4. Promoting family behaviors that help to make the family's well-being and quality of life good for all family members (Berky & Hansom, 1991).



B. FAMILY FUNCTIONS (45 Minutes)

Rationale: Families have certain jobs and roles that its members carry out, usually on a daily basis. Understanding these functions is the first step in being able to assist families.
Procedure:

Ask participants to state what they believe are the tasks/roles of families.

Be sure to include the following:

FAMILY FUNCTIONS (Friedman) are:

  1. Economic: To provide shelter, food, clothes for all of the family members.
  2. Confer Status: To give every member a feeling of importance; a sense of belonging.
  3. Education: Teaching children basic things such as colors, numbers, reading to children, listening to music with children.
  4. Socialization of Children: To help children learn the skills, behaviors and roles that they will need to get along with others and to be successful as adults in the society.
  5. Health Care: To teach family members how to stay healthy, keep doctor or clinic appointments, get baby shots, eat properly, sleep enough, etc.
  6. Religion/Spirituality: To teach the family's beliefs and values about life, work, death, love, God or Supreme beings.
  7. Recreational: To play, have fun and relax together.
  8. Reproductive: To expand the family by having or adopting children.
  9. Affective: To meet the love and belonging needs of family members.
  10. Protection of Family Members: To make sure the family members are safe and kept free from harm (Gillis et al).
FAMILY DEVELOPMENTAL TASKS:
  1. Establish and maintain a home.
  2. Satisfactory ways of getting and spending money.
  3. Satisfactory ways of dividing work among its family members.
  4. Mutually satisfying intimate and sexual relationships.
  5. Open ways of intellectual (thoughts) and emotional (feelings) communications.
  6. Workable relationships with extended family members.
  7. Competency in bearing and rearing children.
  8. Ways of interacting and communicating with neighbors and community members.
  9. Workable philosophy (beliefs and values) of life.

Today many other institutions are taking over family functions: Ask participants to give examples.

Summarize the discussion with the following examples:

Be sure to include the following information

Economic Stability

  • WIC, AFDC, Medicaid, homeless shelters, unemployment insurance
Protection
  • Police and fire departments, social workers, gangs, community/neighborhood groups
Values/Religion
  • Schools, churches, support groups, television/media, music, peer groups, industry advertisements
Educate the Young
  • Schools, churches, social groups, gangs, television/media
Confer Status
  • Schools, churches, laws (16 to drive, 18 to vote, 21 to drink), gangs, peer groups
Today's families are expected to provide primarily for love, emotional and belonging needs such as:
  • Love
  • Intimacy
  • Acceptance
  • Nurturing
  • Caring
  • Individuality
  • To give and to be given to
  • To share joy of good times
  • To provide support during hard times
PARENT QUALITIES HEALTHY FAMILIES OPTIMAL INFANT OUTCOMES
 
C. FAMILY LIFE CYCLE (45 Minutes)
Rationale: The family is ever changing. The changes are predictable. Knowing what stage the family is in will assist the PSS in helping the family to maintain and develop its healthy functioning.
Procedure: Display Transparency of Family Life Cycle.Handout#1 Explain that each stage is determined by the age of the oldest child. Ask the participants to describe the stage of their family. Explain that the discussion will focus mostly on Early Childbearing Family (Stage II) and Family with Preschool Children (Stage III). Discuss the Developmental Tasks and Health Concerns of Stage II and Stage III families.

STAGE II: EARLY CHILDBEARING FAMILY

Major Parenting Concerns:
  • "Parenthood" is often seen as a crisis
  • By "crisis" is meant that parents may feel unprepared to take care of the baby. This may include daily care tasks and having the material items and help from family and friends to be able to take care of the baby or other children in the family.
  • The uncertain feelings about being a parent may be related to:
    • not being prepared to be a parent either for the new baby or for the baby plus other children in the family.
    • having ideas that parenting will be "fun all the time" or "easy all the time" or won't take much time.
    • getting used to new relationships or changes in former relationships - such as:
      • mother-father
      • sexual intimacy
      • learning how the new infant will grow and develop
      • family planning (both birth control and when to have another baby)
      • new relationships to "kin"
      • relationships with friends and neighbors
Health Concerns of New Parents
  • pregnancy classes and childbirth classes.
  • well-baby care - going to the clinic or baby's doctor.
  • when to get baby shots (immunizations).
  • child growth and development.
  • counseling/knowledge.
  • birth control or when to have another baby (family planning).
  • family relationships.
  • parenting (relationships with each other, potential problems).

STAGE III: FAMILIES WITH PRE-SCHOOL CHILDREN

Major Parenting Concerns
  • Safety of home environment for the toddler and pre-school child such as protecting from burns, drinking cleaning products or medicines, electrical injuries, drowning in a bathtub, falls, etc.
  • Increased trips to the doctors office or health care center with children.
  • Adequate childcare or babysitting when parents have to be away from the infant or other children.
  • Having time alone with that special person.
  • Teaching toddlers social skills and manners.
  • Helping other family members get used to the new infant--helping older children to get along with the new infant (sibling rivalry).
  • Getting older children (toddler, pre-schoolers) ready for that first separation from parents (such as babysitters, pre-school or daycare).
  • Birth control or when to have another baby.
  • Having time for yourself and doing some of the things you like doing (private time/time alone).
Health Concerns for Parents
  • Many childhood diseases that children may catch such as colds, chicken pox, ear infections.
  • Accidents (falls, burns, poisonings).
  • Time for couple relationships.
  • Brother - sister relationships (Sibling rivalry).
  • Birth control or when to have another baby (Family Planning).
  • Growth & development education related to their children.
Parenting problems (setting limits, discipline of active toddler or pre-school child).


D. HEALTHY FAMILY BEHAVIORS (45 Minutes)
Rationale: Recognizing healthy family behaviors will assist the PSS to help families maintain and develop healthy behaviors.
Procedure: Review examples of healthy family behaviors. Display the "15 Strengths or Traits Found in Healthy Families" Transparency.Handout#2 Have participants describe what might cause a family to not have these healthy behaviors -- what are stressors for families. Make a list on flip chart.Use transparency "Top Stressors for Families"/Handout#3 to conclude this discussion.


  E. WAYS TO PROMOTE HEALTHY FAMILY FUNCTIONING AND BEHAVIORS (45 MINUTES)
Rationale: The PSS will often have an opportunity to assist the family to maintain and develop healthy function and behaviors.
Procedure: Discuss what the PSS can do to help family. The PSS should use the following strategies for home visits:
  1. Inquire about how things are going with mom and other family member.
  2. Allow sufficient time for mom to express concerns.
  3. If a problem is identified help the mother to use her problem-solving skills to develop solutions.
  4. Always start with describing or praising the strengths she and her family have previously demonstrated.
  5. Be prepared to make referrals if necessary.
  6. Help mom to involve all family members in the solution.
  7. Be sure to follow-up with concerns at the next visits and/or phone calls.
 
F. FAMILY CASE STUDIES AND PRACTICE SESSIONS (120 Minutes)
Rationale: This session will provide the PSS with the opportunity to use newly gained knowledge to practice with family scenarios she is likely to encounter during a visit. Practice will increase the PSS confidence.
Procedure: Present the Case StudiesTraining Aids#1,2,3 (3 CASES, ALLOW 40 MINUTES FOR EACH). Have participants work in pairs to:
  • Identify the family life cycle stage.
  • Describe the family tasks.
  • Describe the potential problems.
  • Describe the family's strengths.
  • Describe how the PSS might help the family to identify the problem and come up with potential solutions.

The Trainer may have the participants work in pairs. One participant is the client and the other is the PSS. The client describes the family situation and the PSS listens and tries to come up with answers to the case study questions. After the role-play have the total class come up with the answers to the case study.

Encourage the participants to review their Resource Manuals and handout materials to prepare their presentations. After about 15 - 20 minutes have each pair present their case study and role-play their presentation. Allow participants to ask questions about content covered or concerns they may have.

 
G. Summary and Review
Procedure:
  1. Trainer or trainee should summarize this unit in a general way.
  2. Review objectives stating them in the form of questions.
  3. Handout post-unit evaluation.
  4. Distribute post-unit test.



Unit 6 Training Aid #1

FAMILY CASE STUDIES

CASE STUDY #1: MARY BROWN

  Mary Brown is a 20 year old, first time mother with a 2 week-old infant named Angela. She stated to the home visitor that this was not a planned birth and that after she got used to the idea of the pregnancy she had hoped for a baby boy. Mary lives alone. She completed a two year college program for data processing. The baby's father has told Mary that he does not want to be involved with Mary or Angela. Currently Mary receives WIC and is drawing unemployment insurance. She hopes to be able to find a job when the baby is 4 months old because that is when her unemployment benefits stop.

Mary was a quiet, soft-spoken women who did not maintain consistent eye contact with the home visitor as she talked. She appeared caring and tender toward her baby. Angela had been born 3 weeks early. Mary had chosen not to breastfeed and she was frustrated about how hard it was to get Angela to take her feedings during the last 2 weeks. Angela does not appear to be gaining weight. Mary stated that sometimes she feels overwhelmed when she is alone with her daughter. "I just don't know what to do especially when she is crying!"



Unit 6 Training Aid #2

FAMILY CASE STUDIES

CASE STUDY #2: MAXINE AND BOBBY

Maxine and Bobby are first time parents of fraternal male twins. Both parents are very excited about the twins and so are both sets of grandparents. Maxine and Bobby live with Bobby's family. Bobby and Maxine are both 18, neither has completed high school nor are employed. They are receiving WIC and AFDC. Both parents seem very loving and caring toward the babies and on the surface everything seems to be fine. However, as you begin to talk with parents you learn more about the family.

The babies were born 3 weeks early. Maxine says she feels like the feedings go on day and night nonstop and she gets no sleep at night. Because the babies were early she knows she has to feed on demand. She states that "some days they feed every 2 hours, so as soon as I finish with one baby the other baby is ready to feed. Sometimes, I just want to leave them in the crib because I never seem to get a break."

Maxine was getting little sleep, although she tried to nap when she could. She tried to get Bobby to help with the feedings so she could nap longer. Now the babies are getting close to four months old and things appear to be calming down. But now, Maxine and Bobby state the infants want them to play with them. Both parents state that its hard to keep the house in order and they have little time to be a couple because Bobby's parents are always around. Bobby says sometimes he feels left out because Maxine is either with the babies or she is too tired. Sometimes Bobby just leaves to hang out with his friends.



Unit 6 Training Aid #3

FAMILY CASE STUDIES

CASE STUDY #3: TARI

Tari recalls that her labor with Jamal was long and difficult. She thinks that was just the beginning. Jamal has been to the clinic and the hospital at least 6 times in his 6 short months of life. Tari is 19 years old and she has a little girl Tara who is now 3 years old. Tara is according to her mom a "good girl and she has never been sick".

Tari works part-time, although she has not been able to work since Jamal's birth. She lives with her older brother's family. Her brother has given Tari the extra bedroom. Tari and both children share the bedroom. Jahri, the father of both babies sends her some money about once a month for the children, and Tari is receiving WIC. Tari and Jahri get along o.k. but they don't see each other often. Jahri is a truck driver and he is away a lot.

Tari says it takes a lot of time to be a mother, especially with 2 children and having to get Jamal back and forth to the hospital and clinic. Tari states sometimes she thinks it is just not fair because she doesn't get to do things with her friends and she really misses that. Sometimes when the children's father comes around, he might take them all to McDonald's and they all like that. Tari states she has very little help from her mom with either of the children. Sometimes her brother's wife helps a little with the children and will watch them for a couple hours if Tari wants to go out. Tari seems to feel comfortable around her children but she seems to get easily frustrated with all of the activities of both children. Sometimes, she admits that she doesn't keep appointments because it's just to much of a bother.



Unit 6 Handout #1

FAMILY LIFE CYCLE

STAGE DESCRIPTION

I BEGINNING FAMILIES -- STAGE OF MARRIAGE (JOINING)

II EARLY CHILDBEARING FAMILY -- (oldest = infant to 30 months)

III FAMILIES WITH PRESCHOOL CHILDREN -- (oldest = 3 - 5 years)

IV FAMILIES WITH SCHOOL - AGE CHILDREN -- (oldest = 6 -12 years)

V FAMILIES WITH TEENAGE CHILDREN -- (oldest = 13 + years)

VI LAUNCHING CENTER FAMILIES -- (from first child to leave home through the last to child to leave home)

VII FAMILIES OF MIDDLE YEARS -- (empty nest to retirement)

VIII FAMILIES IN RETIREMENT AND OLD AGE -- (retirement to death of both spouses)



Unit 6 Handout #2


15 STRENGTHS OR TRAITS FOUND IN HEALTHY FAMILIES

Open Communications with all Members Respect for Family Members Teach Family Values and Beliefs Play and Have Fun Together

Unit 6 Handout #3

TOP STRESSORS FOR FAMILIES

Money Problems

Children's Behavior Such As

Insufficient Couple Time Lack of Shared Responsibility in Family Communicating with Children Insufficient "Me" Time Family Play Time

Unit 6 Overhead #1

Role Play Feedback

 

  1. What do you think you the Parenting Support Specialist did well?
  2. What could the Parenting Support Specialist have changed or done differently?
  3. What other things do you think the Parenting Support Specialist might say or do to help a mother in this situation?


Unit 6 Handout for use at end of each Unit

Post-Unit Evaluation

Unit Covered:_____
Date: _____
  1. Do you feel we covered all the information in this unit that we said we were going to?
  2. What did you like best about the unit?
  3. What did you like least about the unit?
  4. Was the information in this unit presented clearly? If not, please explain.
  5. In which skill areas do you feel you need more practice or help?
  6. How can we make this unit better?
  7. Any additional comments?


Unit 6 Post Unit Test UNIT 6

WORKING WITH FAMILIES

UNIT TEST (10 POINTS)

I. FAMILY CHARACTERISTICS (2 POINTS)

Briefly describe characteristics of a family:

II. LIST 6 FAMILY FUNCTIONS (3 POINTS)

III. INDICATE WHICH OF THE FOLLOWING STATEMENTS IS TRUE OR FALSE ABOUT FAMILIES (5 POINTS)

  1. Families are totally responsible for the education of all their members.
  2. Families are expected to provide primarily for the love and emotional needs of their members.
  3. Many new parents feel unprepared or overwhelmed with parenthood or may see it as a "crisis".
  4. Some families may find talking with their children to be a stressor.
  5. When the PSS is working with a family it is best to start with the family problems.

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